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Friday, January 30, 2015

THE PARABLE OF THE OLD CHINESE FARMER


THE PARABLE OF THE OLD CHINESE FARMER
A favorite story of mine, ‘The Parable of the Old Chinese Farmer’, reminds me that many times what we think about the challenges and trials we face may be completely different than what we suppose.  It also reminds me why ‘faith’ is the first principle of the gospel.
The Parable of the Old Chinese Farmer
There was once an old Chinese Farmer.  He had one horse to plow his fields.  One day when he was out working in his field, the horse was startled by a snake.  The horse bolted and ran off into the woods.
The neighbors saw this and said to the farmer, “Oh my, what bad luck.  You have lost your only horse.  How will you ever be able to take care of your fields?”
Humbly, the old man replied, “Good luck, bad luck— only God knows for sure.”
A few days later the farmer’s horse found his way back home, and in tow was another, horse – a wild horse.
The neighbors saw this and said, “Oh my, what good luck.  Where you had lost your only horse and couldn't work your farm, now you have two horses!”
The farmer simply responded, “Good luck, bad luck— only God knows for sure.”
Sometime later the old farmer’s teenage son was cautiously riding with the wild horse, attempting to break him when the horse bucked and the son was thrown off.  He landed awkwardly and the boy broke his leg badly.
The neighbors saw this and said, “Oh my, what bad luck.  Your only son has broken his leg and won’t be able to help with all of your farm work – plowing, planting and bringing in the harvest.”
The farmer patiently smiled, tilted his head to the side and said, “Good luck, bad luck— only God knows for sure.”
A few weeks later the Royal Chinese Army came through the little farming town looking for fresh, strong recruits.  Generals had requested hundreds of young men to send to the front-line of a raging civil war.  But when they came to the old farmer’s house they passed over his son because of his broken leg.
When the neighbors heard about this they were astonished.  All of their sons had been sent into battle. They confronted the farmer and exclaimed, “Oh my, what good luck!  Because your son has a broken leg, he doesn’t have to go off to the war!”
The farmer humbly sighed within himself and whispered, “Good luck, bad luck— only God knows for sure.”
I love this story because it reminds me that we have a choice as to how we respond to all of the trials and injustices that are part of life’s journey.  That many times, good things can be bad, and bad things can be good, and that the only way to properly evaluate them is to trust in the Lord and in His plan for us, that better than anyone else (including ourselves) He knows what’s best for us – individually and collectively, big things and small (seemingly insignificant) things, as well as things we perceive as ‘blessings’ and/or ‘adversities’.  Also that happiness and peace come in different ways and not necessarily on our timetable.
Wm. Calvin Hughes, Lake Elsinore, CA - January 2015

IN REALITY, WE HAVE A LOT IN COMMON!


IN REALITY, WE HAVE A LOT IN COMMON!
It seems like we spend much of our time thinking about, talking about, highlighting and emphasizing our differences -- our individuality and our uniqueness. It runs the gamut - clothes, houses, cars, political views, jobs, race, wealth, friends, religious beliefs, parenting styles, size, hair color, backgrounds, origins, health choices, diets, entertainment, lifestyles, etc., etc., etc. We use these differences to make judgments, to determine from our (many times biased) perspective what's "right" or "wrong", "pleasant" or "appalling ", "acceptable" or "unacceptable." Sadly, focusing too much on our differences, and when left unchecked, can lead to contention, unhealthy pride, discrimination, and in its worst forms, cruelty, violence, destruction, confrontation or even war. 

One practical way we can minimize or eliminate the tendency to dwell on our differences is to intentionally practice thinking about the things we have in common. Surprisingly, there are a lot things we share alike. When we more fully grasp the idea that "we're all in the same boat", we will develop more empathy and understanding for our neighbors, we'll have more appreciation for others' uniqueness, we learn to value new perspectives, and can experience greater and more significant levels of love. We become more willing to serve each other, "bear one another's burdens", and help others through the ups and downs of mortality. Life becomes more of a 'community effort'. Together, working for the common good, we will accomplish real synergy in the world, blessing lives all around us - positively impacting one unique person at a time. When we do focus on "good commonalities" we are becoming more like the Savior. We also are humble to realize that we are nothing without Him or the Plan of Salvation. We realize that we are here to help Him do His work. We are less selfish, self-centered and egotistical. We are more focused on what really matters in the eternal scheme of things.

Here are some things that all of humanity have in common. Every person who has ever lived, or will ever live on planet Earth share these with every other person -
  • We all chose God's plan in the pre-mortal life
  • All get to experience God's plan - it's a perfect plan - both individually and collectively for the entirety of the human race
  • We all fought in the War in Heaven and fought valiantly together on the same side, and on the side of Michael the Archangel
  • All continue to fight in this war over the souls of men, a war that the Adversary is increasingly waging
  • All supported the Plan of Salvation which included free agency for all and a Redeemer to atone for any and all sin
  • We all agreed to be tested in mortality in order to receive a physical body and progress so that we could become more like our Heavenly Father
  • All passed through a veil of forgetfulness, even the Son of God, disallowing any memory of who we really are, where we really came from and why we are here. Thus, allowing perfect agency, a perfect test and perfect judgment.
  • All have been born with the Light of Christ (the natural ability to know the difference between right and wrong)
  • We all have a desire for happiness and peace
  • All have bodies made of earthly elements (dust to dust)
  • All have earthly parents, a mortal father and mortal mother (the Savior had a mortal mother and an immortal Father - Heavenly Father)
  • We all have Heavenly Parents - our Father and Mother in Heaven
  • God loves us all, in spite of our faults, our mistakes, in spite of ourselves
  • God wants every human soul to return to Him again
  • God gave His only Begotten Son for all peoples of the world in every generation, in every land
  • Every person will be resurrected with a perfect immortal body after death and live again because of the Savior's death, Atonement and resurrection,
  • The Atonement reverses every negative effect that occurred or will yet occur resulting from the fall of Adam - it rights every wrong, it covers every sin, every pain, every act of unfairness, abuse, oppression, injustice, inequity, and more - it levels the playing field regardless of the consequences, the environment or the situation; everything affected through entropy will be reversed and made right again for every person who enters mortality
  • All of us need forgiveness and God's grace
  • We all breath the same air
  • The sun shines and the rain falls without discrimination on us all
  • We all have successes and disappointments, strengths and weaknesses, talents, expectations, discouragements, highs and lows, temptations, things we laugh about and things we cry about, hopes, fears, things we love and things we don't, struggle with relationships, we all make good decisions and not so good decisions - and experience the consequences of both
  • All human beings walk by faith on the mortal side of the veil
  • We all have frequent opportunities to serve others and make the world a better place to live
Somehow it's comforting to know that we have so many things in common with the rest of humanity. We're not alone in this mortal experience - we can lean on each other, support one another and encourage each other all along the way. It turns out that life is much more fair than we may have thought. Only a benevolent and gracious Creator could have made the test we call 'mortality' so perfectly perfect!

Someone I admire said it this way - "Some are tested by poor health, some by a body that is deformed or homely. Others are tested by handsome and healthy bodies; some by the passion of youth; others by the erosions of age. Some suffer disappointment in marriage, family problems; others live in poverty and obscurity. Some (perhaps this is the hardest test) find ease and luxury. All are part of the test, and there is more equality in this testing than sometimes we suspect."   - Boyd K. Packer, “The Choice,” Ensign, Nov. 1980, 20

What are some other things that come to mind that all of God's children have in common? I'd love to hear from you.

Wm. Calvin Hughes
Lake Elsinore, CA
January 20, 2015

Friday, October 17, 2014

Athiest's Response to the Book of Mormon



Wednesday, October 15, 2014

An atheist's response to the first 31 pages of the Book of Mormon


Dear friends,

I couldn't help but share this from a man who felt strongly enough to write out his experience from reading the Book of Mormon. I know the Book of Mormon is true and I know that if all were to read and pray about it, they too could find their answers :)

with much love,
Miss Mormon


To [Miss Mormon],

I hope the following helps to keep you motivated and inspired. I hope it is confirmation that Mormon beliefs are justifiable, and deserve to be respected alongside other Christian denominations:

I just read the first 31 pages of the Book of Mormon, and was entranced by 1 Nephi chapters 8 and 10. I feel as thought I could almost stop there, and come away with something. That something is this:

The Book of Mormon should be read by all Christians.

As an Atheist, that's not the effect I thought the book would have on me. Nevertheless, I can imagine the amount of "push back" Mormons have to face, trying to convince a "Christian" to read it. What a shame. Because it is the most clearly written Christian Biblical Document. If Christians would be willing to read the text, compare it to what they already believe, most would not only agree with it, but would find that it strengthens their faith even further. 1 Nephi 10 provides a greater and more straight forward message than Paul's letter to the Romans. And Romans is considered to be the definitive New Testament Epistle. The Reformation was based on Romans. But Nephi chapter 10 tops it.

There are really only two hangups to widespread Christian acceptance of the Book of Mormon. The first, is the fact that, the Book of Mormon isn't already in the Bible. If the chapters of the book of Mormon were placed within the standard bible , and Christians just grew up knowing that 1 Nephi was found after Malachi and Jeremiah or Habakkuk...they would bite into it hook line and sinker. It would be accepted as biblical cannon. What could possibly make them object?

The second hangup ins that the origin of the book of Mormon is still relatively new. But they confuse the translation of Joseph Smith in the 1800's with the 600 BC time frame of 1 Nephi. If Christians could accept 1 Nephi as 600 BC writing they would accept what it says. Can you imagine the level of excitement they would have if the dead sea scrolls contained excerpts from 1 Nephi? (ignoring the continental logistical problem). If the ancient text was carbon dated to 600 BC with the quote, " six hundred years from the time that my father left Jerusalem, a prophet would the Lord God raise up among the Jew--even a Messiah...a Savior of the world"... what christian would protest that? They would consider it the greatest confirmation of the actual existence of Christ!

And as for the "craziness" of the Mormon origin story, is it no worse than any biblical story? Christians believe that God carved and wrote the ten commandments on stone tablets. But gold plates are somehow impossible? Christians believe that God sent Daniel and St. John visions. But Nephi's father can't have visions? Saul a persecutor of Christians can play a surprise role in God's message, but Joseph Smith can't? Christians see Christ as an all powerful Savior of the whole human race. But Jesus isn't allowed to VISIT the whole human race? I just don't see and of these "Mormon" things as being anymore preposterous than anything else that is already accepted by all Christians.

Finally, it is massively ironic that, Christians reject Mormons in the same way Jews rejected Christians. Christians see Christianity as strengthening and clarifying the Jewish faith, but fail to even consider the strengthening and clarifying that Mormonism could do to their christian faith.


Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Discovering Spiritual Truth


However you know that God exists, that Jesus is the Christ... whatever pattern or process we've used to discover those spiritual truths, we can purposefully use that same process, that same pattern to discover additional spiritual truth. 

The answers will come and spiritual growth will happen again.

Through fasting and prayer, through pondering and scripture study, through faith and practicing goodness to others, through patience in listening for the Spirit's sweet, still, small voice, answers will come. The purposes and mysteries of heaven will be shared.

There is always more truth to be discovered. A little here and a little there. And once discovered, to be absorbed and applied and benefited from. 

As we do so, God will bless us. He will enrich our lives, grant us deeper peace and greater happiness and more goodness. As we believe, truths will it build upon themselves, more revelation will come, more truth, greater truths, and increased wisdom and spiritual growth can be ours.

Wm. Calvin Hughes
Lake Elsinore, California

THE GREAT CONDESCENSION OF THE LAMB OF GOD



THE GREAT CONDESCENSION OF THE LAMB OF GOD

In some small way we can imitate the Great Condescension of the Lamb of God by reaching down and lifting others up who are less fortunate, those in need of a helping hand, others who are lost or hurt or infirm -- those The Master referred to as 'the least of these'. In reality, we are all 'the least of these' at different times and seasons of our lives. In similitude of the Savior, we can also freely offer and willingly sacrifice of ourselves things that some of His children may not be able to obtain on their own. We surely can't offer Amazing Grace, but we can be amazingly graceful in our offerings of love and compassion and service to others. And when we are wholly committed (holy committed) to do so, miracles will abound and the Glory of God will be unveiled. May we all, with great anticipation, long for that glorious day!

Wm. Calvin Hughes
May 31, 2012

Lake Elsinore, California

Friday, September 26, 2014

The God-given Power to Choose



The God-given Power to Choose

Indulge me for a moment, and let me know if this line of reasoning makes sense.

God is the creator of the universe. He created everything that is – EVERYTHING. As such, it could be said that ‘He is the center of the universe’.

We are one of His creations. Just one of an infinite number of creations. Sometimes we may think that we’re insignificant when considering the endless quantity and vastness of His creations. But nothing could be further than the truth. As His children, we are not only one of His creations, we happen to be His crowing creation! We are the one creation that He loves the most, the one that He is most invested in, and the one He is most concerned about succeeding and eventually returning to Him.

All of God’s creations are a tribute to Him, to His majesty, and His magnificence, to His intelligence, to His passion to create, and to His Glory.

Unique among His creations, His children (us) have been given the gift of agency. We alone, of all of His creations have been endowed with the ability to choose for ourselves.

The sun doesn’t choose to give light. The stars don’t choose to twinkle. Flowers don’t choose to bloom. Rivers don’t chose to flow downhill. Trees don’t choose to have their leaves change colors in the fall. Robins don’t choose to fly. All of God’s creations do what they were created to do. They do it beautifully. They do it obediently. And they do it because their Creator made them so. They instinctively and perfectly obey His will, and as they do, they flawlessly fulfill the purpose and the measure of their creation. But they don’t have a choice.

Our choices not only set us apart from the rest of God’s creations, they allow us great possibilities and unlimited potential – possibilities and potential unknown and unavailable to all other creations! Of all of God’s creations, from one end of the universe to the other, from microscopic organisms to blue whales, from the mustard seed to the giant sequoia, from star dust to the sun, we are the ONLY creation God gave the privilege of choice!

Only mankind can choose to be happy or sad, good or evil, kind or cruel, to accomplish or to be idle, to build or to destroy, to have empathy or disdain, to dance in the rain or to agonize through the storm, to plant or to pluck, to speak or to listen, to respect or criticize, to get out of bed or to sleep in, to love or to hate, to make a friend or to antagonize, to worship or to disregard, to be optimistic or pessimistic, to have hope or desperation, to be encouraging or discouraging, to be cheerful or depressed, to feel happy or miserable, to experience the spectrum of emotions, to create, to learn… to choose! It’s not always a clear black or white issue, but the point is that God allows us the privilege of making our own choices. And the incredible beauty of that privilege is both humbling and at the same time breathtaking.

God giving His children the agency to choose tells us a few things about Him. It tells us He loves us and trusts us. What an amazing thing to know. It tells us that He wants us to take part in the process of determining who we are and who we can become! Again, amazing to me. It tells us that our ultimate end will in-part be determined by the choices we make – we have a say in what our lives are like and what they can become. It tells us that we can learn from our mistakes, learn from others, and learn to be better with every new choice. It tells us that our choices have significance, they’re meaningful, and that we should have reverence about the choices placed before us. God must really, really love us to give us this wonderful gift of agency!

It is by our choices, how we use this gift of agency, that we can show our true reverence and ultimate respect for our Father in Heaven. It is through our good choices that we can bring glory to Him and glorify Him. Our good choices, and learning from the not-so-good choices can be a way to express our gratitude for Him, for all things, and especially for His celestial gift of choice.

Choosing love, 

Wm. Calvin Hughes
Lake Elsinore, California

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J.J., a friend replied -

Ok, so He allows us to choose--I wonder how often he allows the natural consequence of our choice to be played out and how often he intervenes. And thus, because I continually day by day try to be more like him, how often should I intervene in the life of one of His children?

I love what you have wrote, this is the hypothetical question it brings to me. I'm guessing, because we're all unique, we just have to continually seek His guidance. That there is no cut and dry answer.

Great comments J.J.. Here was my reply back -

JJ, my personal thoughts are that God let's the natural consequences happen the majority of the time. A great thing about mortality is that whatever our choices in any given situation, we can still learn and grow. Some learning is harder than other learning, and some is harder because of the choices we make.

My thought is that in reality, it's pretty hard to take away someone else's agency. Even people serving lifetime prison sentences still have choices about what and how they think and feel. They can choose to be happy and productive or miserable and destructive.

I'm reminded of great people that chose the better path, the high road, even in the midst of incredible persecution and oppression - like Victor Frankl and Anne Frank and Job of the Old Testament. They've showed that even in the midst of horrendous storms of incredible persecution, they still had agency to choose. And they used it, to their credit, and to our benefit, to choose goodness.

To me there is a difference between intervening and influencing. God tries to use His influence to bless us and help us grow and learn. He uses the Light if Christ, the Holy Ghost, patriarchal blessings, scriptures and Prophets. He even uses our parents and family and friends to influence us, to bless us, and to help us make good choices.

Likewise, as parents we do similarly with our children. We try to influence them for good through a myriad of ways. But when all is said and done, we (and our children) still get to choose how to react and what we're going to do. To obey, or not to obey? - that is the ultimate question.

And the consequences of the choices we make will follow, as natural and predictable as morning follows night. And (repeating myself here) the miraculous part of God's plan is that regardless of our choices, He can use the consequences to still bless us. It's no wonder that one of His titles is 'Love'. In fact, it is precisely out of love that He doesn't intervene. If we could see things like He sees them, we'd probably insist that He not intervene most of the time.

Anyway, those are my thoughts... Don't know if I'm on the right track or not... just thinking out loud. What do you think?

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

The Holy Ghost, A Trusted Friend


Recently, I was asked to facilitate a lesson about the third member of the Godhead, the Holy Ghost. One of the wonderful things that came out of this lesson was a discussion concerning the seven major responsibilities of the Holy Ghost. I’m confident that the Holy Ghost does much, much more. No doubt, He does a lot behind the scenes, in secret, giving all the glory to the Father. That said, in no particular order, I would like to share some of the things we've learned about one of my Heroes, the Holy Ghost.

1.   The Holy Ghost helps us find things. We are told in scripture that the Holy Ghost knows the truth of ALL things (Moroni 10:5). It would make sense that He would also know the location of all things too. From a very early age the Lord has answered my prayers when I have lost something of importance to me. At the age of five to fifty plus, prayers have been answered to find my favorite rock, a pocket knife, my wedding ring, my keys, my wallet, lost homework, cell phones, shoes, kids, the perfect wife and more. I believe that the Lord answered those prayers and the Holy Ghost helped me find what once was lost (my wife wasn't lost; I just hadn't met her yet).
2.   The Holy Ghost helps teach us things (John 14:26). One of the more obvious evidences of this is the overall acceleration and multiplication of individual and combined knowledge in every facet of our world (communication, travel, music, arts, literature, medicine, education, energy, science, food production, the universe, languages, architecture, construction, etc.). We have access to information on our phones that Rulers and Kings and other royalty didn’t have access to anywhere less than 200 years ago. In fact, since the restoration of the Gospel in 1820, the influence of the Holy Ghost has been expanding through the worldwide growth of Church membership, and knowledge and technology has also grown exponentially in ever-increasing rates. I believe that it’s definitely not a coincidence (also see D/C 121:26-27).
3.   The Holy Ghost helps testify of truths, especially of spiritual things, and most especially of things pertaining to the Savior Jesus Christ and God, our Heavenly Father. The scriptures tell us that ‘life eternal is knowing the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom He sent’ (John 17:3). The Holy Ghost plays a major role in helping us learn about God and His Son, their goodness, their love for us and their desire for our eternal happiness.
4.   The Holy Ghost helps protects us. He will warn us of poor decisions and of danger ahead. Just as loving parents watch over their children, steering them away from dangerous traffic, a hot stove, a poor decision or a bad relationship, likewise our Heavenly Father uses the Holy Ghost in similar ways to protect His children from both physical and spiritual dangers (Mosiah 2:6). 
5.   The Holy Ghost helps comfort us. In times of difficulty, stress, concerns or other worries. He can help us cope, help us endure, help us find the silver lining and help us understand God’s higher purposes. This comfort will most likely not cause challenges to go away, or go away any sooner, but it will remind us that God is in control, that we’re not alone, and that we will learn something of value and will be better for the journey. God has promised us ALL things work together for good to them that love God (Romans 8:28).
6.   The Holy Ghost helps guide and direct us. I guess that this is somewhat related to number 1 above, but the emphasis here is more than finding lost things, its directing us spiritually, directing us toward Christ and the eventual return to our heavenly home. The Holy Ghost prompts us to stay in correct spiritual paths. He sets delineators and road signs along the trail, pointing to where God wants us to go and to where we can best serve Him. It’s comforting to realize that the Holy Ghost will never, ever lead us astray (D/C 42:13, 46:2).
7.   The Holy Ghost helps clean and purify and sanctify us from all sin (1 Corinthians 6:1). The scriptures frequently refer to the feelings we experience from the Holy Ghost as a burning in the bosom or as a baptism of fire. It is that process of cleansing and purifying and sanctifying that the Holy Ghost helps us grow spiritually and prepares us to be presented by the Savior, as our Mediator, to the Father at the judgment bar. Through the Savior’s Atoning sacrifice, His blood that He freely spilt, we have hope of reuniting with God. The Holy Ghost plays an important role in helping us become pure enough to appreciate and understand better what the Savior did for us in Gethsemane and on Golgotha.
I read a book some 2o years ago about how to qualify for the Celestial Kingdom. It was, at most, 150 pages. But to my amazement, the secret process it spoke of was strikingly simplistic! The author repeated himself over and over, using different words and examples, but essentially saying the same thing on every page! The great secret he revealed was only 13 words long! In order to qualify for the Celestial Kingdom, he said all that we needed to do was to “be committed to consistently seek and follow the promptings of the Holy Ghost!”

May we all have greater appreciation the third member of the Godhead, and diligently strive each day to seek and follow the subtle promptings and quiet whisperings of the Holy Ghost.

Wm. Calvin Hughes
Lake Elsinore, California
July 2014