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Thursday, September 7, 2023

THE MOMENTS IN LIFE

 


The Moments in Life

 

There is no life without moments…

 

Moments of hunger,

moments of fear and loneliness,

moments of trepidation,

moments of being unfairly judged,

moments of scarcity and coldness,

and moments of pain.

 

Moments of disappointment and failure,

moments of depravity,

moments of envy,

moments of inadequacy and regret,

moments of shame and embarrassment,

moments of frustration and anger,

and moments of depression.

 

There are also moments of overcoming,

moments of prevailing and of triumph,

moments of success and victory,

moments of completion,

moments of peace and there are moments of love.

 

A life without moments like these wouldn't be much of a life at all.

 

That's what makes life unique, worthwhile, interesting and full.

 

Embrace, relish and enjoy the journey.

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Wm. Calvin Hughes | September 7, 2023 | Lake Elsinore, CA


Sunday, July 30, 2023

More Peace and Happiness Available

 


More Peace and Happiness Available

Every person who has ever lived or will ever live has a genetic predisposition, an unmistaken longing for greater peace and happiness. It’s interesting that with all the chaos and contention in our world, we all have this mutual personal yearning – a cohesive, universal thread that connects everyone – all 7.9 billion of us. That fiber is our common denominator, a perpetual desire and pursuit of greater peace and happiness. If it’s so pedestrian among all of humanity, how can we tell if we’re realizing it? What does it look like when we have it? And how would it feel as we’re achieving greater peace and happiness on a more consistent basis?

Here are some of the delineators that signal realization of increased peace and happiness in our lives –  Less stress and less anxiety and more organization * Less guilt * A greater need to serve others * A greater desire to be charitable * A greater focus on the things that matter most – things that promote meaningful progress * Better relationships and repaired fractured relationships * Less anger and frustration * Better health and better sleep * Better attitude * Brighter outlook on what the future holds – looking forward to the future * A cleaner, calmer conscious * The ability to think clearer * More opportunities will spontaneously come your way * You'll be more attractive to others * You’ll have more light in your life * You’re less selfish, more selfless * You’ll feel more freedom and have more options * You’ll experience increased thinking ability, better problem-solving abilities, better decision making, and superior creative skills * Increased integrity and morality * You’ll experience more protection * You’ll receive more forgiveness * You’ll have more heaven in your life – increased spiritual direction and divine comfort * You’ll enjoy more truth and discernment * There will be less contention in your life * Setbacks will be viewed as minimal speedbumps, ‘blessings’ that provide learning and experience, just part of the journey – not major roadblocks that you need to waste any  time or energy fretting over * Life will mean more, be more cherished * You’ll have fewer feelings of depression or discouragement * You’ll have less focus on material things * You’ll experience increased clarity * Temptations will be easier to cast-off * You’ll have fewer regrets * You’ll feel more love. 

Wouldn’t everyone want more of these virtues in their lives? Can’t imagine anyone that wouldn’t!

So, if we’re not regularly recognizing these qualities in our lives, what are we doing about it? Are we just accepting the status quo? Or are we proactively incorporating ideas and activities that will encourage the realization of increased peace and happiness in our lives? How can we be engaged in pursuing and achieving increased levels of peace and happiness?

Some, when trying to justify personal goodness, might say something like, “I’m really a good person… I’ve never robbed a bank…” Always found that quite humorous. Like that’s the ultimate measure of humanity’s decency! If so, join the ‘righteousness club’ along with 99.99999% of the population! It’s not very reassuring… and not the greatest indication of deserving increased and regular peace and happiness in your life. Just thinking you’re ‘a good person’ wouldn’t qualify someone as warranting greater quantities of peace and happiness – it’s just hopeful thinking.

Then how can we be more proactive at realizing increased and consistent peace and happiness? One of the better sources of life truth can be found in ‘The Good Book.’ Let’s explore some verses that teach us about achieving peace and happiness (happiness is often referred to as ‘joy,’ ‘comfort’ and ‘rest’).

Maybe the most noticeable reference to peace is acknowledging Christ as the Prince of Peace. Following Him and His teachings brings peace from the ultimate source of peace. There are nearly one hundred Bible verses that reference peace in relation to Jesus Christ.

“Now the Lord of peace himself give you peace always by all means. The Lord be with you all” (2 Thes. 3:16).

“And my people shall dwell in a peaceable habitation, and in sure dwellings, and in quiet resting places” (Isa. 32:18).

“Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men” (Luke 2:14).

“Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” (Jn. 14:27).

In reference to achieving more, consistent happiness (joy, joyful, joyfulness, joyous, enjoy, comfort) there are over two hundred and thirty verses with admonitions, advice and wise counsel in scripture. Here are a few.

“You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore” (Ps. 16:11).

Happy are thy men, happy are these thy servants, which stand continually before thee, and that hear thy wisdom” (1 Kgs. 10:8).

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Matt. 11:28-30).

“And he said, My presence shall go with thee, and I will give thee rest(Ex. 33:14).

If we’re genuine about elevating peace and happiness levels in our lives, there are easily accessible road maps, abundant resources with established and proven methodologies available to everyone. The choice is ours. The overall result will depend on our sustained commitment to the objective.

Further support for this ideology can be found in multiple studies that confirm the reality for increased peace and happiness being enjoyed by those who maintain committed, faith-filled belief systems. One study, from The Pew Research Center[i], conducted a worldwide survey on this topic in over 25 countries. They categorized respondents in three ways – actively religious, inactively religious, and those that identify as having no religious affinity. In every country the results were consistent, not a single exception – people who were actively religious always reported higher volumes of happiness. In some countries the difference was as much as 14%. Those who identified as actively participating in their religion (all faiths and creeds) were as much as 14% more content than those who self-reported as both non-religious and non-participating in religion. The smallest difference in these countries still reported a 4% improvement in increased happiness. Some other interesting findings from the study: the actively religious (the happiest group) were generally more likely to abstain from smoking and drinking; the actively religious are more likely to vote; the religiously active are more likely to be physically active; and the actively religious are more likely to be involved in other service organizations (i.e. voluntary organizations, charities, clubs, humanitarian organizations, and philanthropical societies).

Absolute peace and happiness, like Shangri-La is a mythical place. We can experience some heaven on earth, but eternal heaven is another place altogether – a place we look forward to residing as a unified citizenry someday. Until then, mortality by definition comes with challenges, atrocities, unfairness, inequity, suffering, injustice and evil. It’s because absolute peace and happiness is unfeasible that we’re on this lifelong quest to find more of it. Achieving greater volumes of peace and happiness is attainable, but we have to set our minds to it, live by directives that yield it, and be intentional about proactively pursuing it. Makes perfect sense that God so appropriately named His plan, ‘The Plan of Happiness’. It’s a lifelong journey but well worth it because you’ll be blessed with a reality that embraces more peace and more happiness.

With both empirical and theoretical validation, it lends credibility to the idea of having increased peace and happiness is not only possible, but that there’s reliable methodology on how to realize it! With that in mind, if you could use more peace, more happiness, what are you waiting for? If you know of someone searching for more peace and happiness, pass this article on to them.

My wish is that you will discover how to find and enjoy increased peace and greater happiness in your life.

“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened” (Matt. 7:7-8).



Wm. Calvin Hughes | July 29, 2023 | Lake Elsinore, CA



[i] https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2019/01/31/religions-relationship-to-happiness-civic-engagement-and-health-around-the-world/

Wednesday, June 21, 2023

THE RAIMENT CURATOR

 


the Raiment Curator

a Parable about the Atonement

by Steven W. Hughes





There was once a man who was a restorer of textiles.

 He was the master custodian of apparel!

His own garments were impeccable!

 

They were not flashy or trendy,

but perfect.

 

His loyalty to His Owner

was readily apparent.

 

Their countenances were identical

and their end goal indistinguishable.



  

The Owner trained the Master

 in all His ways.

 

There was no stain that the

Master had not seen!

 


 

No disfigurement he could not reconcile!

 

There was no odor he

had not encountered!

 

 He recognized the origin of each blemish

as well as the fiber of each article

and knew the appropriate treatment.



 

He understood the complete use of

chemicals and fabric tolerance.

 

 He understood the Universal Solvent

and its properties

and use in rehabilitation of textiles.



 

Many there were that came to Him

with their apparel

to have stains blotted out,

fabrics renewed and made whole.

 

 


 

His process for restoration was exact

and without fail,

so long as the customer had faith in Him and 

patience for the process

which could only happen

in the curator’s timetable.

 

Upon receipt of an article,

the Master treated it as his own.

 


 

Discussing with its owner the history,

use and misuse of the good.

 

 Each piece was numbered,

bar coded and scanned

into the Master’s log.

 


 

Each and every garment was

studied and inspected,

and given its exact and specific blueprint 

for complete curation.

 

 At any given moment the location

 of a piece was known

by the Master Curator.

 



Every thread memorized.

 

Upon completion,

each piece was once again inspected,

carefully packaged and presented to 

the customer with

detailed instructions for ongoing care.

 

Each of his employees were trained

in the Master’s ways,

which was also the Owner’s ways.

 

They were not perfect apprentices,

 but they were worthy,

able and authorized

to do the Curator’s will.




They were sent out all over the land

to find articles for their work.

 

They represented Him well

teaching His ways.

 

Patrons that heeded the apprentices

were made whole.


 


 

They observed the Master

for what he was

and had great joy!

 

When they heeded his word,

all their stains and blemishes

were as though they never existed.

 


 

The Curator had a competitor.

 

He was a flashy dresser.

 

Always wanting to be above his clientele.


 

He saw them as beneath him;

unworthy of his presence.


He too had been trained

in the art of restoration

by the same Owner

as the Master Curator.

 


 

He knew the techniques

and requirements

that resulted in complete perfection.

 

He understood the patience required

for cleaning and achieving results.

 

 

He knew the chemistry and applications.

 

However, he despised the Owner.

 

Defiled his name.




Jealous of the Owner’s fortune

and power.

 

He demanded it all for himself.

 

He wanted uncountable volume.

 

He labored extensively

teaching his employees

the art of deception,

and the fraudulency of speed.

 

Infatuated with the hypocrisy

of his methods,

he easily betrayed his patrons.

 

 

He found practices to cut costs

and reduce overhead.

 

He diluted chemicals and cleaning agents 

and found other designs

to mimic repair.

 

Stains were not properly removed,

but covered up temporarily.

Repairs were cut short in

the name of profit

and did not last.

 

Alterations were faked and disguised.

 

 Customers were unaware for a time.

 

He lost track of the countless lies.

 


 

He utilized every form of media

to advertise and

entice new clientele.

 

He had no shame in his ways.

 

He had no care for his customers;

Or their raiment.


He loathed the Owner

and the Master Curator

and did everything in his power

to discredit Them.

 


 

And so it was that the competitor 

continued to grow his business,

promoting himself and

disassociating with the Owner.

  

He grew in his narcissism

and debauchery.

 

 He lost many apprentices,

but did not care.

 


 

He disposed of them as quickly as

the “un-restorable” garments.

 

As his deceit became apparent,

he moved from village to village.

 

He hired and fired attorneys

to handle the complaints.



 

He was proud of what he had achieved.

  

There was a never-ending

world of customers.

 

He didn’t care that many customers would leave

as long as his business grew.


 

He would never change his ways.

 

However, the Master Curator

continued His business as usual,

slowly growing His business.

 

At times losing customers

that did not have the patience

to see their garments properly restored.



 

 

And at times reestablishing clientele

that came to understand the need

for the process to be done

in the Master Curator’s ways.

 

He never lost His love for His work.

 

His life’s work of making things clean.

 

 


 

We also have a Curator for our lives.

He is the Master Curator,

also known as Wonderful, Counseller,

The Mighty God,

The Everlasting Father, and

The Prince of Peace.

 



He is the Good Shepherd

that loves His followers.

 

He knows each of us by name.

 


 

Those that follow Him,

know Him and recognize His voice.

 

He is the Master Curator of our souls,

removing sins and stains from sin.

 

Even the toughest,

most menacing and difficult,

ground-in stains

can be removed by Him.




Though our stains may

be blatantly scarlet,

He can make them as white as snow.

 

Even though our stains are crimson red,

He can make them as clean

and pure as wool.

 


 

He will forever love His work

in making us clean.

 

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Steven W. Hughes

 

November 20, 2016


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About the Author




Steve W. Hughes works in insurance claims helping people put their lives back together after an accident or tragedy. He has found great satisfaction in this work and many similarities to the work of the gospel of Jesus Christ.   He has served as a youth leader, bishop and high counselor in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. He graduated from the University of Utah majoring in Economics and minoring in Sociology. He lives in Murray, Utah with his wife, 4 kids and German Shepherd dog. This parable is his testimony of the reality of the Savior of the world and Son of God.


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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

  would like to acknowledge my wife Laura and our four children

for always being my support and strength and the loves of my life.

 

I would also like to acknowledge my brother Calvin

for helping format this book, adding powerful imagery

and encouraging me to finish it.

 

I would also like to acknowledge another testament of Jesus Christ

that has given me a sure knowledge of the reality

of the Savior and His ability to make

each and every person clean. 

 

That testimony came through study of The Holy Bible

and The Book of Mormon, Another Testament of Jesus Christ.

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DEDICATION

This book is dedicated to the Savior, Jesus Christ, and to His teachings.

May those who read this parable draw closer to Him by truly understanding what He has overcome for them, and then following Him. 

Working in insurance claims affords me the opportunity to encounter many kinds of individuals. Often, insurance companies utilize many businesses that specialize in various forms of restoration to assist insureds’ following a loss. The inspiration for this parable came one day when I visited a dry cleaning/laundry facility that had a very special individual working there. 

Sicandor is from India and his parents came to America to live their dream. He has a unique gift of being able to clean just about any kind of stain from any kind of textile. From years of experience, he knows how to identify specific kinds of stains and which chemicals and solvents to use to rid the textiles and garments of these stains. It was a joy to watch Sicandor as he enthusiastically explained the process of cleaning various kinds of materials using a number of combinations of cleaning agents. 

I immediately thought of the Son of God and His ability to likewise cleanse our souls of various kinds of sins and shortcomings using the most powerful cleaning agent ever, the infinite and eternal Atonement.

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Paper book copies available through Amazon - 

The Raiment Curator: A Parable About The Atonement: Hughes, Steven W.: 9781539088998: Amazon.com: Books